Compassion in life

People with strong minds - are the one who have gone through a lot. A lot of pain / suffering / emotions / whatever it be. We either love such people or hate them because of what they are.
But, the truth is had they not changed to what they have become, they would have not survived. Remember, its the survival of the fittest.

I think had they got a different guidance from elders / friends / spiritual gurus, they would have learnt to tackle their problems in a different way and may have become more composed, more centered and agreeable to different ideas / ways instead of a strong-minded life.

We need more compassion, more love, more guides in life. Lets be a guide to someone in life.